Jersey Shore Cast…as kids!??!??

Posted on January 14, 2011. Filed under: My 2 Cents, Random, Stereotypes | Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , |

So, I have to admit that I have fallen victim to the Jersey Shore craze. When MTV first starting airing the show I really wasn’t into it. I never watched an episode and really didn’t care too. When Jersey Shore came about everyone had a reality show. They seemed to be about anything and they were all the same…drama, drama, drama, arguing and fighting. However, as you guys may know I am a HUGE fan of the Bad Girls Club so sometimes I love the drama. I watch every episode of BGC religiously. However one day after a BGC rerun went off there was nothing else on TV (&& I do love reality shows) so I ended up watching one of the last episodes of the Jersey Shore from the first season. After that I was HOOKED!! I think I love the show so much because my living situation  is similar, which is not ideal. I am more like the Sammi type in my household just b/c these people are so fake and phony and I can’t deal, but anyway, before I get off topic..

I was surfing the web and came across this “Jersey Shore Cast as kids” picture and was interested to see what they may have looked like as kids. However when I saw the picture I soon realized this was not the actual cast but this was some parent who dressed their kids up as some of the cast members and posted it on the internet. Personally I thought it was just a fun and cute thing to do, but as I started reading the comments posted on Bourgy a lot of people thought this picture was in bad taste.

A lot of them took it as far as to say the “dad wants his daughters to grow up and be strippers,” which to me, is a crazy thing to say. I think in this day people take things WAYYY too seriously. All of the apologies that have been demanded from celebrities that may have “said the wrong thing” and others careers that have been ended over making mistakes, to me, is ridiculous. We are all human, we all make mistakes and yea you have a responsibility to be a role model as a celebrity but no one can do the right thing all of the time.

So I wanted to know what you guys thought about the picture, about the posting of the picture and about the parents dressing their kids up as Jersey Shore cast members?!? I’m interested to see what you guys think…

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Why do Abusers Abuse!???!???

Posted on October 30, 2009. Filed under: Abuse, Double Standards, Life, Men, My 2 Cents, Problems, Relationship | Tags: , |

This has always been a topic that I wondered about. I’ve always wondered why men abused women existed and why there were women in the world that stayed in abusive relationships. First and Foremost, let me say that I don’t think it’s right for a woman to hit a man, or vice versa, but this post is geared towards all the male abusers out there and reading this post right now…

Me and My Mr. always have arguments about these sorts of topics. His claim to fame is that “A woman needs to stay in her place and she won’t have to worry about it.” I always say, “What is a woman’s place?? I have never come across ANY  reason why a man can talk sh&t, get in a womans face and a woman can’t do the same. I see no sense in that. I am a firm believer in the notion that everyone’s created equally. I have never prayed on any one simply because they seemed more fragile and more weak than I. That is cruel and doesn’t help me feel better about myself at all. If anything I try to uplift the “weak” so they won’t be taken advantage of by the next person that comes along. Anywho, I never understood why and when men thought it was OK to hit women. Was there a newsflash that I didn’t hear about?? I would think that hitting women would make you feel like less of a man, considering we’re supposed to be the more “fragile” of our species. It seems just a little too easy and the pattern that I have observed in abusers is one where they are always afraid of other confronting men that may cross the abusers path. So is it that they feel weak in the world and feel like letting out all of their anger and frustrations from that out on someone weaker than themselves? It seems that men are supposed to be our protectors but when we need protection from them, what happens then?

I know lots of outsiders (people looking into  an abusive relationship) would say, “why not call the police and why not just leave!?” However, sometimes it just isn’t that easy. Most of the time along with physical abuse comes emotional abuse and a very genuine fear of what will happen if they take these next steps. Especially when your fear for your family and/or your children.

I want men to know this and hear THIS if nothing else, there are many alternatives to hitting your lady. This should never even come across the mind as an option. When me and My Mr. are in the midst of arguing and I feel like it’s going too far, I usually just leave, cool off and maybe talk about it later.

—A few things to relieve stress to let go of Tension.

– Work Out

– Take up Boxing, or another Sport.

– Go Smoookke. (For all you smokers out there).

-Try to look at yourself as if you are out of the moment and in the room, what would your mother say?! What would you say if you were looking at yourself?

-When you feel the tension building, leave. Get in the car and go!

I want to talk a bit about the predatory side of abusing.  There are certain men out there that prey on a specific type of woman. There are men on Earth that enjoy beating on women. These are the types of guys that I never want to get involved with, meet, or even know. There is something really degrading and disheartening about the fact that a man will take his frustrations out on his wife or his woman, “the woman he’s supposed to love.” I do think there are men out there that get enjoyment out of someone else’s fear of them. I believe they crave and love that cycle of abuse, forgiveness, abuse and then again forgiveness. I guess that’s why these reality show brains came up with shows like “Snapped,” where women end up killing their husbands because they have been abused repeatedly until the point they are scared for their life and just can’t take it anymore. These women feel the only way to end their misery is to end their abusers life. That’s another thing, sometimes these women are so scared of their men they feel the only way to defend themselves is to resort to shooting, or killing their “victim” while in sleep mode or otherwise not aware of what’s going on.

I swear, abuse is a powerful thing. I know there are many aspects about this subject that I don’t know. I have done a little reading on the subject but nothing too extensive. I was just thinking about it and wanted to express my opinions on the topic.

Have any of you ever been in an abusive relationship? What came of it?

What if you found out the person you love is an abuser (emotional or physical), would you tell someone? Would you honestly try to leave?

What do you think about the women that end of killing their abusive husbands??

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A new One!!! Hot Wiizz-ings..

Posted on October 28, 2009. Filed under: Body, Booty, Model Type., Women | Tags: , , , , , , , , |

So from what I understand about this chick she is a model and was contacted by the casting directors to meet Chance, to be on the show.  She claimed, in her exit interview that Chance hasn’t given her the time of day in about three months since the show’s end. She also talked about dating “Dre P,” from Tool Academy, so we’ll see where that goes. I guess we might have to prep for a “Real Chance of Love 3.” I know I wouldn’t be surprised.

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to be classy, or not to be classy. That is her question.

Posted on August 14, 2009. Filed under: Body, Job, Model Type., My 2 Cents, Style | Tags: , , , , , |

this Real Chance of Love 2 girl “Classy” takes some racy photos.

I wonder if they chose the right name for her or not?? Can a lady still be classy && take internet photos like these??

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So this one is seemingly OK, but for a “Classy” lady, IDK, but the rest are much more provocative..

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So, what do you guys think?? Should she have done these photos?? Is this something that you would have expected from her, or is it all the same?

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Punisher!??!?!? you getting too MUCH credit mannn..

Posted on August 7, 2009. Filed under: Model Type., Relationship | Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , |

Punisher MeganwantsaMillionaire

So, I was watching another Reality Show last night as I often do and it was the Premiere Episode of “Megan wants a Millionaire” first of all I don’t even know whyyy she has a show. This chick, I don’t like her. She is manipulative and selfish. She doesn’t even care about people, which is apparent in this new show..

So anyway, the show starts off with her talking about how much $$ you should have if you want to be with her. She was telling viewers what you have to do for her && how much stuff she wants you to buy for her. Now I know this is all for show but WHO in their RIGHT MIND would want a girl like her?

Just for EYE CANDY?

OMG. You just can’t be serious, what is this world coming too??

I mean, I just don’t understand why this skeez can’t get her own Mula?!? Or maybe she does have it and just wants to spend someone else’s. Either way the concept of this show is pretty dumb, but regardless I know I will be watching. All of these reality shows are very entertaining…to me.

However, I did read somewhere that VH1 only offered Megan a show so that she wouldn’t sue them over her getting attacked by Sharon Osbourne, her Charm School teacher. That could be true but Megan knows that she had that coming how she was just running her mouth. Well, i’m rambling…so back to the topic…

..Punisher. This dude is a little TOO cocky to be who he is. To ME he is just NOT cute AT ALL && he’s the only black guy. AT LEAST if he was going to be the ONLY one you would think they would pick somebody CUTE. Yea, he has a nice body, but that’s pretty much it. PLUSSSSSSS his body looks weird with that darn infestation on it. He says it’s a birthmark, but that things looks rough, bumpy && infected. That is just not cute at all.

I really don’t like talking about people but I just really had to let that out. I doubt that he will get that far in the show unless he starts fights with people. However, if they are kicking off instigators now, then maybe he won’t be on the show long, regardless.

Oh yea, so Sex Toy Dave…I knew I had seen him somewhere before and he has definitely been on Millionaire Matchmaker with Patti. I love Patti! She keeps it real!

Here is a Screen Shot of him and the chick he went out with. She was very very pretty but he turned her down because he said she was too much for him. He said he wanted an aggressive chick but she was too aggressive. Basically she just wanted to do it to him…

Sex Toy Dave && Match

Oh yea…check out Megan here..For the Guys && some girls.
—this is what’s under that Kini you guys! Lol.
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more @ Bourgy..

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